Instead of the ubiquitous scented candle that, let's face it, often gets put into a drawer or closet or ends up being re-gifted, Girlawhirl's going with this sleek Manhattan Candle Lighter - complete with Swarovski crystals in the handle - so no one's fingers get singed when they light up.

Manhattan Candle Lighter

$26.00

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A Super Pal who always relaxes with a cuppa will definitely appreciate a teastick that makes brewing with loose tea as easy as a tea bag.

Teastick

$22

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When she visits friends who love to grill, this set of cast iron skewers made to look like twigs are the perfect mate to a jar or two of gourmet marinades.

Cast Iron Twig Skewers

$30 for a set of 8

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The Flavour Shaker from Jamie Oliver is an amazing kitchen gadget that does the work of mixing, mashing and bashing – what once had to be done in with a mortar and pestle – with just a few shakes. Inside the container is a ceramic ball that really does crush garlic and bruise herbs to release all their flavors. It's a must for all of Girlawhirl's friends who spend time in the kitchen.

Jamie Oliver Flavour Shaker

$29.99

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Girlawhirl may arrive at the party with this pretty blue pitcher filled with flowers, but her host and hostess will be using it for everything from lemonade to margaritas all summer long.

LeCreuset® Stoneware Pitcher

$39.95

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One of her Super Pals has been named the “Cupcake Queen,” so when Girlawhirl comes to dinner, she's bringing the Daisy Crown Cupcake Pan with her. So her friend can create – and share – cupcakes inspired by flowers.

Daisy Crown Cupcake Pan

$29.95

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